What we've been up to

Mostlly just trudging along as usual.  Some days are normal, some days I feel totally underwater.  It's really not that bad, but my temperament/personality does not lend itself to being a super go getter when the things that have to be gotten are laundry, cleaning and organizing. It's way easier to watch Real Housewives and hold my baby until we both fall asleep.

The sleep deprivation is catching up to me a bit finally. And strangely enough, it's because Bobby has been getting up in the middle of the night.  Either to pee, or blow his nose, or for no reason, but he doesn't go back to sleep easily, or if it's after 4am, sometimes at all. He also wants the hall light on and his door wide open when he goes to bed, so sometimes he takes longer to fall asleep. (although sometimes he can konk out quickly when it is bright and noisy)  He always goes to bed around 7:30 but the other day he didn't fall asleep until after 9 and was up at 5. And yesterday he took a 4 hour nap, so I think he's tired but it messes him up too.

Jack sleeps like a 3 month old.  Gets up 2-3 times in the middle of the night, nurses back to sleep. His days are usually awake for an hour, asleep for an hour. Although the last 3 days, he has had 3 hour naps which is nice. But then again, I don't take advantage of that time well enough.  Obviously he's sleeping now, which is why you get the stream of consciousness blogging. 

I have no idea what I've already put on flickr and I feel like I'm on borrowed time with this long nap, so  it's time to wrap it up in pictures.

LOVES his cape

It's birthday party season

A dad had to break it open, Bobby collected 8 bags of mini pretzels.  WTF.

California Style

So warm here

Late October

Little Dude was not pleased his sunbathing was interrupted 

He made me take a picture in all 20 of these things

Mummy Obsessed

The train was the best part

Angel baby

Also been giving all our crappy plastic toys a facelift

Todays Accomplishments

Bobby mastered jumping from his feet to his butt to his feet on the trampoline.
And Jack stuck seven fingers in his mouth.

• It's a good thing Bobby can't tell time, because then he would know he went to bed before 7 tonight.   
• You know it's been a good day when I have to wash the bathtub after a bath.
• The Giants hit a home run the other day. Bobby: "That's what I'm talking about" He misses nothing and remembers everything.
• I was trying to get him to pick up his bike but he said he couldn't , "I don't have six arms"
• He will always call you out if you try to skip pages in a book, but now he tells me when I mess up sentences or words.
• I said to no one in particular that I could really use a diet coke. He answered, "but that won't make you healthy and strong." At least one of us listens to me.
• We must have been talking about junk food another time and he told me "my tummy isn't crying.  I didn't eat bad food so it's not crying" Because, you know, you cry when you're upset.
• It's picture day tomorrow so naturally Bobby hit his head on something and has a mark.

• I've created a monster in jack like I did with Bobby.  So spoiled and can't put himself to sleep without nursing or a lot of cuddling.  He's only three months and I'm resolved to do better, but he's a needy little baby as they all are I guess.  
• He's so happy though and his laugh is the best.
• He's a lot like Bobby was.  When I try to lay him down in a bouncy seat or even flat, all he does is curl up and lift his head.  Dude does not want to lay down flat.  He is getting pretty stable and less suicidal when I hold him.  His gyrations are a lot less these days and I can almost hold him with one hand without risking a serious back flip.  
• He has perfected the movie vomit scene with his spit up and always manages to turn his head just right at the last minute to completely spit all on me.

Happy little dude

 Jack slept from 11-5 last night. Woo hoo! Now if only that were in a crib. Of course, he was just going back down when Bobby woke up to pee at 5:55am. Up for the day, ugh.

"I'm a good big brother"

 Bobby has been asking to go the tire swing, so we went after school today for a picnic lunch, but as soon as he got on the swing, he wanted to get off.  I guess the spinning is more fun in his mind than in reality.  He does like getting dizzy and going fast though.

Cranking the gondola

 We picked up a Legoland map and he kept on looking for the treasure.  He's a trip these days.  He doesn't miss a thing and is really fun to talk to.  We are working on his phonics a bit, but he doesn't seem too interested unless you catch him at a good time. We're also working on telling time, or at least getting the concept down, but both of those ideas are months-years away.

Reading the map

October so far

October 7: Washed the car, got a popsicle from the ice cream truck. It's really quite nice here.  Except for the ridiculous regulations the crazy government has imposed and created a nightmare for small businesses and the general driving population. So if you don't mind $4.80/gallon gas, California is lovely.  

Jack is three months! He is fantastic and happy and laughs.  It's the best.  He wakes up every two hours or more frequently at night.

just sitting while we played outside

 Bobby loves to hike and ride his bike.  He finally had a spill off of it and scraped his elbow.  School is going great, although I'm pretty sure he doesn't learn anything or do anything.  I've only gotten one art project in four weeks.

We are really liking our neighborhood and street in particular.  Everyone has their halloween decorations out and we frequently have bike riding parties and even bbqs.  We are looking forward to our visitors at the end of the month and Jacks christening.  We are doing our research for Cars Land and the Zoo's Safari Park.

Weekend

Nice weekend.  Went to San Diego for the Giants game.  Got to wear some of the orange and black kit that Grandma gets us.  Rick probably wouldn't be too pleased to know that Bobby requested to watch Mary Poppins on my phone instead of watching the game.  In his defense, it was naptime, he couldn't really see, but most of all, who doesn't love Step In Time!

Bobby

"How do you get so much wax in your ears?" Without missing a beat, "Honey Bees"

He was pointing a picture from his baptism, "Theres Auntie Carolyn, you, the King holding me, daddy and Uncle Chandler" so two for five.  That would be Monsignor and his godparents, but close.

I'm so afraid he's done with his naps. He says he doesn't want to take a nap and once we eventually get him in his room and read to, he will flip and chatter and who knows what with the lights out.  There are no toys in there and he doesn't play with books, so last week he took his pillowcases off, yesterday he got a new shirt from his drawer and put it on.

He is very particular about his clothes, he likes to pick them out and only has a rotation of about 4 shirts.  Also he now needs to match his pajamas.  His father has made him a square too. He is the same with his shoes.  He was to wear sneakers if his dad is.  If he is in flip flops and his friend is wearing sneakers, Bobby has to too now.  He is really good at riding his strider bike fast, so that is tough on his shoes and I have to find some new ones for him now!

What a night

So it's incredibly hot here (upper 90s) and we have no air conditioning, so by early afternoon I am super crabby and everyone is hot and cranky and bored at the same time b/c we don't want to go to the playground or ride bikes, so we decided to go see Finding Nemo in the theater.  It went well, Bobby was only a little antsy at the end, Jack was great and mostly slept through the whole thing.

We got out around 5:30 and started to go out to dinner for more AC.  In the 15 minute car ride, Bobby falls asleep.  We go in anyway since it's too late for a nap. But then it turns out he's peed his pants.  Jack is over stimulated and a bit fussy and to top it all off, our gift card doesn't work! Which is the reason we went out there in the first place.  Pretty sure I wasn't going to cook, but in trying to be frugal, we picked the place we wouldn't have to pay in cash!

 It wasn't exactly the fun family time/date night I had pictured.  Luckily I had a whole spare outfit in the car, so I took off Bobbys wet shorts thinking he'd wake up so we could feed him, but no.  So we had that towel in the car and he slept all through dinner like that.  Feet in my lap.  I put his shorts on him and he still didn't wake up, loaded him up back into the car, he woke up for a split second, said something about Handy Mandy, and went back to sleep and now's he in his bed. Here's hoping we make it until 6:30am.

These guys are great

Being Three

I was trying to load Bobby up in the stroller to go to the store and get some milk.  he said no, because he doesn't have boobies.

He asked me where my ribbon cage was the other day.

His favorite exclamation is currently Holy Guacamole.

We got baby Jacks blanket from Aunt Judy.  Just in time for tummy time.  He was 12 pounds, 2 ounces at his 2month appointment.  Light and long. Didn't like the shots, but who does. Cried more than I think Bobby did.

School is going very well. Haven't gotten any details from him but no complaints either.

2 months

2 months a video by sld78 on Flickr.

We went out

This is a big deal since I didn't get away from Bobby for at least a year and half, so this time I am hoping it will be a little different - more balance, independence, etc.  Anyway, it was only for school orientation and less than 1.5 hours, but still.

Judy babysat and I left a bottle and everyone did great. Bobby was fed and bathed already.  I know she is more than capable, but it can be overwhelming and I don't want to sic my kids on anyone just in case.

She actually got Bobby to bed easily and Jack only took about 2 ounces of milk, but everyone was happy. And now, I think we should have grabbed some ice cream.  Bobby woke up this morning and asked where BG was sleeping.

So proud of his tower

I know this is a lot of post about nothing, but Bobby has really never stayed with anyone who wasn't family, or when we weren't really close by. It's not that I can't leave my children, or don't trust others, I just don't want to impose if they are difficult or cry. (so I guess that's sort of a lack of trust), Either way, progess!

Jack is great.  He is really happy and smiley and thats it.

Bobby continues to test us at times, but he's coming around to behaving. I think he has realized he has to share top dog billing.  Plus we're dealing with phasing out of the nap - not by choice believe me, it just doesn't work some days.

He took this himself with the webcam

I really thought I'd have more to say. guess not.

This guy

This guy

is great.  But all children should be second children.  He is so laid back. He just goes with the flow because he has to.  I know he's young and it's very early, but he's so easy.  And good thing, because he has no crib, has hand me down everything else, doesn't get special laundry detergent, doesn't get fancy bath soap and a long meticulous bath.  He gets poked and prodded all day long and is just fine with it all.

It was a bit difficult adjusting to how to make the beach work, but it did.  He took long naps in the warm air and we all pitched in watching him nap in the house too.  His horrible acne went away as quickly as it came up (not quick, but suddenly).  He is filling out daily and eating like a champ. I guess he has his brothers metabolism and genes so far, that, and I don't make fatty milk.  (maybe i'll try nursing longer) We go back to the doctors at 2 months.

I'm horrible, but sometimes, before we left, I would walk by him sleeping in the pack and play and see this

Doppelganger (plus facial hair)

which is okay, because first he was this.

Which is really just like our Nicky right?!

But, this other one is a whole chapter in himself right now. He did enjoy accidentally creating this cargo skirt.  He really cracked up.

He does have the legs for it

August Already

Time is flying by and will only get more hectic until we are actually on the plane next Wednesday.  The boys continue to be great.  Bobby is doing really well at camp and gives me and Jack some quiet time in the morning for naps and/or a walk.

Sweet Big Bro

 Bobby always asks to hold him and kiss him and see him, but then runs on his way.  He gets really upset if Jack cries too long.  He also tends to tell us "you have to be quiet" when Jack is sleeping.  Of course, he does it in his loudest possible voice.

Big melon is too heavy

Morning cuddles, sort of

My favorite thing might be when Jack stretches out and his arm is in the air, hand in a fist, Bobby swoops in for "baby knuckles" and gives him a tiny fist bump.  Very cute.

Rhinoceros hair

We are so spoiled by our friends and family.  Everyone sends stuff for both J and B. Colleen send Jack that stool (legs not on yet) and Judi Maher made that adorable cardigan.  Jack also got a full size Lousivlle slugger with his name on it, which made Bobby a good bit jealous.  But for now, it is hiding under the bed until we can hang it up way out of reach.  Bobby got an awesome hobby horse and runs around on it often.  And along with gifts from Kate, that was all just this week. And we got to see our friends from Virginia. We met them at the beach and they had great gifts too.  Remind me to be this generous in the future. Now I've got to get it all in the baby book!

it's a stool

we need this on the coast

• We are still doing very well.  Bobby is very sweet to Jack.  He always says "he's so cute" and asks where Jack is when he wakes up for the day. He likes to get diapers and wipes to help me out.  I try very hard to let Bobby be a normal (noisy, wild) toddler and not get bothered that he's driving cars on the wall or doing somersaults too close to us etc.  It's hard though, but we have to live with it.
• Bobby has started his little summer camp.  It's every day from 9-12 at his preschool.  I think he's even in his classroom, so the fall should be smoother.  Drop off was emotional for both of us, but at least he didn't cry.  He seems to have fun and comes home exhausted, but I'm not too confident that they totally have their act together over there.  It is a nice mix of ages and activities, so it's something to do and lets me spoil Jack and go to the grocery store. 
• As much as I wanted my kids close together, and still get jealous when I see a big belly on a mom of a 1 year old, there is something to be said for having a 37 month age difference.  It is really nice that Bobby can climb into his car seat alone or walk across a parking lot with me and pee and eat and all that without total toddler supervision like is required of an 18 month old e.g.

Two weeks

13 days old

Weight: 8 pounds, 13 ounces  60th percentile (about half a pound gain in a week)
Height: 21.25 75th %
Head: 14.5 50th %

We are going to check his hips, but I think they are just tight. or loose.  they pop a little but she thinks it's just a tendon.  His appointment was in the middle of his morning nap, so I thought he would disrupted, but instead he just slept from 9:30am to 2pm with one tiny feeding at noon.  If only he would sleep like that at night.  He wakes around 2am and takes a while to settle down again.  Oh well. Even in that picture, I took him out of his carseat after we were at the playground, thinking he badly needed a diaper change, but instead, he just curled up and kept sleeping.

Nothing big planned this weekend.  Lots I want to do, but newborns are sort of a drag to do fun toddler stuff with!

One week check up

One week was last Friday. Everything was great.  Really, just a weight and jaundice check.  I really like our pediatrician and the office so far. He was 8 pounds, 4.5 ounces, so -  within the margin of error of different scales - back up to birth weight.  And he should be, he eats all the time.  Not a lot, but pretty darn frequent. But I also don't keep track, so it could be normal.  He does take some huge naps (when not interrupted by big brother) so he's has to eat often after that.  Each night gets better too.  He would tend to be up at 10pm when I wanted to sleep but we are getting through that and having a later feeding then something around 5 or 6am and then more sleep.  Who knows.  He doesn't really like the bassinet much though and seems to prefer the softer big mattress, or I guess it could be sleeping closer to me.  I am looking forward to getting on our own, even if i am screwing myself by then having to juggle Bobbys needs too, but either Rick or I need to get in the guest room so we can have some decent sleep!

JT - Day Three, and four

A lot of this going on

Baby Jack is doing well at home, as am I. It is way easier this time, a combination of knowing what I'm going, not having to worry about jaundice and being a good bit less sore.  He sleeps pretty much all day and most of the night.  His nights aren't great, but it's not a problem for now.  My milk has come in and he's still adjusting to having to drink that much that fast I think, but he is pooping a ton and holy hell, engorgement.  Forgot about that.

I'm ready to go shopping and walk a bit; I think we are all feeling a bit of cabin fever.  Especially Bobby. Adjusting to having them both and keeping Bobby busy (and not bouncing off the wall) will be challenge #1.

Bobby is being very sweet still.  He makes sure Jack is covered up and has diapers at the ready for me. He still does somersaults a little too close to him, but always asks about him and to hold him.  He also asks a lot about breastfeeding and if Jack can use his boobies too.

Bobby only calls him Joey about half the time.  I only catch him and correct him about half those times.

24 hours

Almost one full day in and everyone is doing very well. This time was much easier o. Me. Either I know what to expect, or at least my body does. Rick is a lot more relaxed too. I sort of slept holding the baby last night when he was brand new and all day today he has slept. He's really good so far and has latched on well. I got showered and have been eating well. My bleeding is way better this time and I'm only a little sore while the cramps come and go.

 He really doesn't have a name yet.

 Bobby was adorable when he visitors and very sweet. He asked to hold him a few times and made sure we used a blanket to cover him up. He called him Joey the whole time and said she was a very cute baby. He also said my tummy wasn't big.

 Home midday tomorrow. I can see wanting to get out of here a bit earlier as this room is stuffy, but I'm not totally ready to have him home just yet. This place is pretty different than Georgetown. A lot more hands off I'd say.

 Can't post pics from the iPad right now, so check out flickr

Without fail

Bobby hasn't wet the bed in months, but sure enough, I changed his sheets yesterday.  So he did.  This time, he woke up saying he was sweaty though. It was a full on drencher though.  Who knows.

I asked him what the pelicans beak does. He answered, holds his glasses.

He is such a mimic. Some of the gems we hear:

• Check out the blah...
• That sounds like a plan
• You can do it, honey - to me!
• Holy Moly, there's a ... 
• And our least favorite, "oh, shoot"

He also gave me his baby to hold and told me this "don't drop him, don't hit him"

One more week or so, or less, I hope.

Checking In

You will be happy to know I did actually buy some diapers, so we are not totally unprepared. Rick keeps saying he's going to pack his bag, but hasn't exactly gotten there yet. Car seat is still dusty in the rafters, but I really think there's no rush.  I think a little freaking out would probably do me good.  I'm a little too laid back on all this, but I was the first time too. While it feels imminent and we all want him to come, there's still well over two weeks until my due date.  And the poor chap hasn't a name yet, so why rush.

Pajama golf is fun, but

Underwear golf is our favorite

Bobby is into golf a little bit, but combined with his baseball background, it's best to take cover when he swings.  Perhaps field hockey or polo is a better sport for him.

Showing off his Tball class completion cert

Yes I did go to another baseball game 8 months pregnant, but nothing is happening.  We travelled to San Diego for Giants away game as well; and now they aren't coming close to us for a while, so lightning won't strike twice.  Maybe we'll watch the All Star game in the hospital though one night.

This face.  He's such a ham.