• We are still doing very well.  Bobby is very sweet to Jack.  He always says "he's so cute" and asks where Jack is when he wakes up for the day. He likes to get diapers and wipes to help me out.  I try very hard to let Bobby be a normal (noisy, wild) toddler and not get bothered that he's driving cars on the wall or doing somersaults too close to us etc.  It's hard though, but we have to live with it.
• Bobby has started his little summer camp.  It's every day from 9-12 at his preschool.  I think he's even in his classroom, so the fall should be smoother.  Drop off was emotional for both of us, but at least he didn't cry.  He seems to have fun and comes home exhausted, but I'm not too confident that they totally have their act together over there.  It is a nice mix of ages and activities, so it's something to do and lets me spoil Jack and go to the grocery store. 
• As much as I wanted my kids close together, and still get jealous when I see a big belly on a mom of a 1 year old, there is something to be said for having a 37 month age difference.  It is really nice that Bobby can climb into his car seat alone or walk across a parking lot with me and pee and eat and all that without total toddler supervision like is required of an 18 month old e.g.

Two weeks

13 days old

Weight: 8 pounds, 13 ounces  60th percentile (about half a pound gain in a week)
Height: 21.25 75th %
Head: 14.5 50th %

We are going to check his hips, but I think they are just tight. or loose.  they pop a little but she thinks it's just a tendon.  His appointment was in the middle of his morning nap, so I thought he would disrupted, but instead he just slept from 9:30am to 2pm with one tiny feeding at noon.  If only he would sleep like that at night.  He wakes around 2am and takes a while to settle down again.  Oh well. Even in that picture, I took him out of his carseat after we were at the playground, thinking he badly needed a diaper change, but instead, he just curled up and kept sleeping.

Nothing big planned this weekend.  Lots I want to do, but newborns are sort of a drag to do fun toddler stuff with!

One week check up

One week was last Friday. Everything was great.  Really, just a weight and jaundice check.  I really like our pediatrician and the office so far. He was 8 pounds, 4.5 ounces, so -  within the margin of error of different scales - back up to birth weight.  And he should be, he eats all the time.  Not a lot, but pretty darn frequent. But I also don't keep track, so it could be normal.  He does take some huge naps (when not interrupted by big brother) so he's has to eat often after that.  Each night gets better too.  He would tend to be up at 10pm when I wanted to sleep but we are getting through that and having a later feeding then something around 5 or 6am and then more sleep.  Who knows.  He doesn't really like the bassinet much though and seems to prefer the softer big mattress, or I guess it could be sleeping closer to me.  I am looking forward to getting on our own, even if i am screwing myself by then having to juggle Bobbys needs too, but either Rick or I need to get in the guest room so we can have some decent sleep!

JT - Day Three, and four

A lot of this going on

Baby Jack is doing well at home, as am I. It is way easier this time, a combination of knowing what I'm going, not having to worry about jaundice and being a good bit less sore.  He sleeps pretty much all day and most of the night.  His nights aren't great, but it's not a problem for now.  My milk has come in and he's still adjusting to having to drink that much that fast I think, but he is pooping a ton and holy hell, engorgement.  Forgot about that.

I'm ready to go shopping and walk a bit; I think we are all feeling a bit of cabin fever.  Especially Bobby. Adjusting to having them both and keeping Bobby busy (and not bouncing off the wall) will be challenge #1.

Bobby is being very sweet still.  He makes sure Jack is covered up and has diapers at the ready for me. He still does somersaults a little too close to him, but always asks about him and to hold him.  He also asks a lot about breastfeeding and if Jack can use his boobies too.

Bobby only calls him Joey about half the time.  I only catch him and correct him about half those times.

24 hours

Almost one full day in and everyone is doing very well. This time was much easier o. Me. Either I know what to expect, or at least my body does. Rick is a lot more relaxed too. I sort of slept holding the baby last night when he was brand new and all day today he has slept. He's really good so far and has latched on well. I got showered and have been eating well. My bleeding is way better this time and I'm only a little sore while the cramps come and go.

 He really doesn't have a name yet.

 Bobby was adorable when he visitors and very sweet. He asked to hold him a few times and made sure we used a blanket to cover him up. He called him Joey the whole time and said she was a very cute baby. He also said my tummy wasn't big.

 Home midday tomorrow. I can see wanting to get out of here a bit earlier as this room is stuffy, but I'm not totally ready to have him home just yet. This place is pretty different than Georgetown. A lot more hands off I'd say.

 Can't post pics from the iPad right now, so check out flickr

Without fail

Bobby hasn't wet the bed in months, but sure enough, I changed his sheets yesterday.  So he did.  This time, he woke up saying he was sweaty though. It was a full on drencher though.  Who knows.

I asked him what the pelicans beak does. He answered, holds his glasses.

He is such a mimic. Some of the gems we hear:

• Check out the blah...
• That sounds like a plan
• You can do it, honey - to me!
• Holy Moly, there's a ... 
• And our least favorite, "oh, shoot"

He also gave me his baby to hold and told me this "don't drop him, don't hit him"

One more week or so, or less, I hope.

Checking In

You will be happy to know I did actually buy some diapers, so we are not totally unprepared. Rick keeps saying he's going to pack his bag, but hasn't exactly gotten there yet. Car seat is still dusty in the rafters, but I really think there's no rush.  I think a little freaking out would probably do me good.  I'm a little too laid back on all this, but I was the first time too. While it feels imminent and we all want him to come, there's still well over two weeks until my due date.  And the poor chap hasn't a name yet, so why rush.

Pajama golf is fun, but

Underwear golf is our favorite

Bobby is into golf a little bit, but combined with his baseball background, it's best to take cover when he swings.  Perhaps field hockey or polo is a better sport for him.

Showing off his Tball class completion cert

Yes I did go to another baseball game 8 months pregnant, but nothing is happening.  We travelled to San Diego for Giants away game as well; and now they aren't coming close to us for a while, so lightning won't strike twice.  Maybe we'll watch the All Star game in the hospital though one night.

This face.  He's such a ham. 

Update, 36+ weeks

*

6 pounds, 7 ounces, head down, fluids are good. 1 cm dilated, 20% effaced.  So, basically a whole lotta nothing happening. Which is good b/c I want a big fat 8 pounder this time (remind me of this when I'm in the hospital).

Looks like he'll probably still be a July baby.  Which is good b/c poor thing has no crib, no toys that aren't dusty in the garage, no diapers, no stable changing table. just some clean clothes and dirty blankets.  But if he doesn't quit making me so tired, nothing is going to get done.

*don't ask me what that picture is of.  seriously, i can understand not seeing anything at 8 weeks, but this is past 8 months, what the hell am I looking at? A chinless baby with a foot on its chest?

The Nesting has begun

Ok, not really, but we got this out of the garage rafters today, so that's a start. It is a little rackety, but for over 60 years old and 8 babies, it's not in bad shape.  Kirin had her baby Thursday and she was only due 10 days before me, so I could go soon in theory, but I doubt it.  More like fourth of July.  We'll know more this week I hope.

8 Months Down

I owe you a birthday blog, and I have no excuse for it since Grandma was here all week and I have been persona non grata around here sitting on my bum, but no suck luck. Maybe later.  Even without a proper party because of the funeral, he had a fantastic two days and was majorly spoiled.

Deal

"I will stop growing up after my birthday is done" I have been telling him to stoop getting so big and stop growing up, but he says all the time "I have to grow up" but tonight was the first time he seemed to imply why - he has to make it to his birthday. " I have to be three" I think he wants candles and present opening.

A failed nap

We had a very active long playdate this morning, came home and went to bed easily.  He was in his room well over two hours, but I definitely heard him muttering a lot. I finally went in there a bit after 4 I think because I wanted to see what was up. I found him sitting up against the wall.  He said he was trying on underwear and wanted to see how they feel. (like we try things on to see how they fit) "They feel nice"was the verdict.  He had on SEVEN pairs of the new 10 pack that I left on the foot of his bed.

He wanted to show them to you...

And yes, he sleeps with no pants on after he pees before his nap because he tends to overheat.

Bobby is really funny. I think he's smart, but it could just be that normal growing into a human thing.

• I gave him a small kids Chobani this morning and he gave it back saying he wanted a big one. I thought it was amusing.
• He was "combing" my hair, and I was saying ow, ow with the knots, he said "don't worry about it"  I guess he has learned the suck it up philosophy we have when you're hurt.
• He calls me and Rick "guys" when he addresses us both.  It's a little informal.
• He calls the baby Joey. I don't know where he got this, I am pretty sure we don't know any Joes. He says good morning to him, tells me Joe is sleeping in there, or stretching and rolling around.  He covers up my belly button and my mouth simulataneously and says he's not letting him out.  He says he'll share his toys with Joe and teach him how to play baseball.  Bobby also calls him her and sister often too though.  I hope it's not too much of a shock when he comes out all useless for 6-8 months.

I feel like we missed the terrible twos.  He had a period of being a brat, but generally it was a good year.  He is far from perfect and I'm sure three will be his period for terribleness, especially as he can have an attitude every now and then.  Very stubborn too and set in his ways too. We'll just say he knows what he likes and doesn't.

Birfday

My birthday was good.  Nothing too special (or you can decide), but at this age, I really don't expect or want anything.  Rick let me sleep in (or try to), we went to the farmers market and ran my errands, then we went out to lunch.

Then at lunch, Bobby promptly chugged his milk, said his tummy ache, was sitting next to me, then he puked on me.  Luckily he really hadn't eaten anything, and most of it landed on my napkin, but still, vomit. on me.  Went home, cleaned up, Bobby and I took naps, then we went out again to buy my present. Rick got me a tv for the kitchen.  It's still in the box because I don't know if I want to go there, but I'm sure we will.  Then we got Chick Fil A for dinner. Seriously. Then Rick got me an ice cream cake.  I actually think he got it more for him though.

Next day, we had a play date with a set of twin boys that are a month older than Bobby, then Judy came over and Rick and I went to a movie.  And either because we're boring or it was a weird time of day, we couldn't think of anything else to do and went home. (I did suggest Lowes though)  So we went home, to find Bobby had never fallen asleep for his nap because he needed to poop.  And somehow, although he always lets himself out of his room when he's done sleeping, if something is up, he'll just sit in bed and cry.  That combined with not-me going in to get him, he never made it to the potty and pooped in his pants. There's a first time for everything. (I think that was his first puke too) So, it really sucks that Judy had to clean it up, but she was way apologetic when really we should have been...

So, lots of bodily functions and rambling in this post.  And here's a picture with his two new friends...

He actually was super cute with them and introduced them to each other and role played. Poor things.

Catching Up

 We had a good week here. Started Monday at the DMV to register the car and get a new license :( Somehow I always manage to get photo IDs taken when I have the fattest face ever.  I got my Marine Corps ID on 6/1/09.  Then hit up a playground on the way home since Bobby was so good at the DMV.  Tuesday, Bobby went to soccer class!  I don't know why it had to be inside, it doesn't help with the idea of dribbling the ball.  He was really good of course.

Stretching: Flexible like his parents

Ready position

Shooting the ball

 He did listen fairly well.  He got caught up in playing a bit, but he's 2, come on.  he goes a little wild around other kids, so he had a lot of fun. Every time the coach would say "dribble," Bobby would pick up the ball and try to dribble it, before starting to dribble it with his feet.  And as you can see above, same thing with "shooting" the ball.  He was really trying to get it up to the 10 feet baskets.

And because we didn't want to wait until late May (and do consecutive sports), we signed him up for TBall class too.  But only one other kid was in there, so it will be cancelled :(

Thursday, we had a day in and hung out with the neighborhood children. Friday we went strawberry picking.  I don't know if it was the place we picked, but the prices were about double what you could get in Wilmington.  It was so expensive - flat fee too, not even weighed. Last year, we would get buckets and buckets and flats for change. I'll have to check out the road side stands to see if that's any better.

Me and the little Orange are doing fine too.  My weight gain is ridiculously high, but I love a good challenge for after delivery.  

28 weeks

I seem to have developed an obsession with linens and fabrics and managed to put them all in a wish list.  Of course, I do not really expect a $50+ crib sheet, especially since I have a tubful somewhere, but it's so easy to click on a button and it all gets stored in one place.  Hopefully a nesting urge will kick in sometime and I'll organize my boxes and clothes and furniture, but with the guest room as it is, the baby Dragon (?) will stay with us anyway for a few months.

Here is my "registry" if anyone has hit the lottery and didn't tell me about it.

http://www.amazon.com/registry/baby/3DS9VJKRBKBKS 

Rescue Mission

Loaded up the cars

Had to follow the bandaid though

Taking him back to the dirt

Direct Quote

We were reading a book and there were people fishing.... "I love fishing" "maybe Pop will take us fishing"

What is he dreaming about?

2:30am  Can I please have a popsicle?
7am Cora pooped in her diaper. Elizabeth had to clean it up.

• A California driver I am not.  They go so fast.  And I know you all think I am an aggressive driver, but I'm really pretty lax. At least comparatively I am.  I mean, these people are in a rush.
• We should have kept the Range Rover to keep up with the Jones.  People here have money I guess.  But with premium gasoline at $4.50+ and that car getting 11mpg, we're doing just fine with one car (with 100K miles on it) Maybe that's what I'll get for my birthday.
• There are a lot of snails here.  Which means there are a lot of dead snails here. And i hate them,  and Bobby is fascinated with them. 

Good post nap bedhead. He's been sleeping like a champ

• And I'm just going to put this here, more for myself, although I don't think it applies to many items, I will be sharing my wishlist/registry/birthday list soon...Through April 12, get $10 off every $50 purchase of select in Amazon’s Baby department with coupon code baby2012

Just a reminder this kid has parents

23 Weeks

We went to Boston for a wedding for 2 nights and Bobby stayed with Grammy and was a good kid.  I personally think he can't handle too many adults at once and that's part of the reason he acts up.  (Sometimes it's just attitude) They shopped and went to church and the Science Center and played a lot.  We are very lucky to have a Grammy.  Bobby didn't miss us at all.

We are moving on Thursday! I think I have Bobby updated on the plan, I just don't think he knows it's a one way trip.  But he does like love planes, and he likes saying "California."

And in the "You get what you pay for department" file Ricks flights.  Raleigh to Boston to Las Vegas - $264.  But on American - and there was no plane leaving RDU so he missed his connection at JFK.  Then leaving Boston they cancelled his flight from JFK to LAS, so he got in a lot later and had another delay in LA. He is staying with Carolyn, then hopefully getting our beds and some toys out of the container before we get there later this week.

Bobby often says I love you too.  Without it being said to him first, so we say I love you three, I love you four and so on.  But today he said, "I love you number one."  Close enough.

Somebody woke up at 3am this morning and trotted into my room as if it were 7am.  After a pee break, downstairs of course, I got him back into my bed.  This is what it looked like by morning.

He has probably helped Grammy get ready once too many times                                    

His own idea and application